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Spanking Your Child: Biblical or Psychologically Damaging?

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Posted on 25 January 2010

Many scientists now suggest scolding your child by alternate means rather than spanking.

A special research task force of the American Psychological Association (APA) recently stated that, “parents and caregivers should reduce and potentially eliminate their use of any physical punishment as a disciplinary measure,” according to the January 2010 issue of “Scientific American Mind” magazine.

The group of 15 child development psychologists, headed by Sandra A. Graham-Bermann of the University of Michigan at Ann Arbor, concluded that such physical discipline (often referred to as corporal punishment) may lead to “an increase in childhood anxiety and depression” as well as “behavioral problems, including aggression and impaired cognitive development.”

Conversely, countless Christian parents and those of other Protestant denominations continue to support with Scripture the spanking of their children. Common Bible references include Proverbs 13:24: “He who withholds his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently,” (New American Standard Version).

Hebrews 12:6-7 is often used to exemplify God the Father as a model for parents: “For those whom the Lord loves He disciplines, and He scourges every son whom He receives. It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline?” (NAS)

Interestingly, certain members of the research team disagreed with the finds and even claimed that the data was flawed. Psychologist Robert E. Larzelere of Oklahoma State University said that other forms of punishment, including “restriction of privileges, grounding and time-outs” resulted in similar “negative outcomes in children.”

“Scientific American Mind” noted that Larzelere suggests parents spank their children only when all other preliminary and gentler forms of punishment are ineffective.

However, the majority of the researches disagreed with Larzelere, believing that spanking should be completely banned in all parent-child relationships.

In his October 2008 article entitled “Spare the Rod? Parents Just Won’t Get with the Science,” Southern Baptist Theological Seminary President Albert Mohler says, “Christian parents have a special stake in this controversy, because the Bible speaks so directly to the use of corporal punishment and the necessity of disciplining disobedient children.”

Mohler also adds, “There is no such authority as “the science,” and the contradictory debris of now outdated scientific theories and “findings” should be sufficient and persuasive evidence of that fact.”

Dr. Michael J. Marshall, author of “Why Spanking Doesn’t Work,” would likely disagree. At his official web site StopSpanking.com, he asserts that, “Spanking teaches children that violence is the solution to behavior problems” and it “makes children’s behavior worse, not better. Unfortunately, by not realizing this sad fact, parents often respond by spanking more, not less. This results in a vicious cycle of violence as boys grow up learning to impose their will on family members through intimidation and physical punishment.”

According to 1995 and 2005 national surveys, 90 percent of American parents admit they still spank their children on occasion and 70 percent completely condone it.

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5 Responses to “Spanking Your Child: Biblical or Psychologically Damaging?”

  1. Sheryl Young says:

    I don’t understand these findings, except for politically correct pressure. It is obvious over the last ten years or so, that childrens’ recent spoiled, nasty, destructive and mean behavior is caused by NOT physically disciplining them…the result of 80′s and 90′s pop psychology of never exposing children to anything negative. Kids have lost all respect for parents and other elders. The behavior I see in public…it’s craziness.

  2. James Wait says:

    hey Josh,
    awesome article, I think that spanking is wrong and should be forbidden spanking is only for monkeys. I grew up in the ’80′s and ’90′s. People can use better choices than speaking.

  3. James Wait says:

    I meant to say spanking not speaking!

  4. Yeshua says:

    Thank GOD – corporal punishment of Kids is a crime where I live. It is really disgusting it isn’t elsewhere too. All you who have ever abused a child will brun in hell for ever.

  5. Chryssy says:

    I’m not exactly sure where, but the Bible does say to use the ‘rod on your children’… Without discipline one will never grow… When my baby sister is sent to her bed, it is not an effective punishment, she’ll just do it again! If my parents spank her, then she will learn not to do it and won’t repeat what she has done. I personally believe that spanking is a good, effective punishment, as long as it is done in love and not abuse and anger. Whenever my mom spanked me she always took me into her arms afterwards and kissed me. Then she would tell me that she loved me but that I needed to do what she said. At the time I would be angry with her for spanking me, but now, just a few years later, I see that she did it all in love for me.


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